Middle Way Management and Humility

In my last post, I discussed how to recognize and relieve suffering in the workplace. As a Middle Way Manager™, it is your special responsibility to work with those you manage to relieve their suffering, regardless of its origins. In this post, I will consider what it means to be humble and how to practice humility on a daily basis as you develop your Middle Way Management™ practice.

It's Hard to be Humble
It truly is hard to manage with humility in an American-style organization, especially if you live in the United States. Are we not taught that the leader charges ahead of the pack, relying only on his wits and wisdom to lead everyone else into a brighter future? That it is not only desirable, but necessary, for the leader/manager to recognize, develop, and loudly proclaim her leadership strengths? That a humble person is soft-spoken, walks with his head down, eyes directed at the floor, never acknowledging his own self-worth? None of these attributes should be a part of your daily Middle Way Management practice and here's why.

The Bold, the Proud, the Humble
Personal pride should be a fundamental part of your Middle Way Management practice. You simply cannot develop a solid, congruent management practice - of any kind - without it. Is this the sort of pride that is boastful and arrogant? Certainly not. Is this the sort of pride that recognizes you as a special person here at a special time to fulfill a special duty? Certainly! Taking pride in your own achievements is a healthy way to build your own commitment to an organization while developing a trust relationship with those you manage. Yet, how does this fit with humility in the workplace?

Humility is a special quality that requires both introspection and honesty. The humble manager understands her strengths and weaknesses and works to maximize her effectiveness within the context of the organization. Humility does not promote boasting or sycophantic behavior; it requires a manager to think, speak, and act with clarity of purpose and to view himself as a critical part of the organization's success. The humble manager understands that his success depends entirely upon the team. In this way, the manager only ever operates in a support role - as a facilitator of success. When you are humble, honest, forthright, and clear, trust will abound and the team will excel.

Back to the Breath
Because humility falls under the "way of being" rubric of Middle Way Management, the single best way to become humble is to reflect upon it during your busy work day. Once again, taking time to sit quietly and concentrate on your breathing will prepare you to move into concentrating on humility. Breathe in and recognize your breath, breathe out and recognize your breath.  Breath in and consider humility, breath out and consider humility. It takes very little effort to incorporate ideals like humility, compassion, and accountability into your thought processes simply by concentrating on them for a few minutes every day. Of course, deftly applying the Middle Way Management practice methodology will also help you change your habits and behaviors in long-term, lasting ways, as well.

In my next post, I will discuss boundaries and how they can help you develop your Middle Way Management practice based upon trust, a basic requirement of the true Middle Way Manager.

Until then...go now, and manage with compassion!

Onward! Darin

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